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Possible.....? additional info 1. To establish a relationship slowly through friendship, getting to know each other, before jumping in the sack? (And I don't mean waiting forever either...... a girl has needs LOL)
2. To be treated like a lady?
a. Doors opened.
b. Holding hands.
c. Unexpected flowers/ s
d. Cursing in regular conversation. Respect me enough NOT to talk to me that way.
3. To be seen as beautiful not only for what's on the outside, but what's on the inside?
4. To share moments that take your breath away as well as moments that knock the breath out of you?
5. To have someone miss you 30 minutes after you leave? (I realize this sounds silly on some levels but really I want to experience life WITH someone)
6. To find someone that is complete with themselves but thinks life is just extra special with you in it?
7. To be loved regardless of your past and appreciated for being who you are today?
8. To find someone who knows that passion is an all the time thing? It's in every touch, every kiss, every hug. And it's those small special moments throughout the day that make the sex ultra incredible. (Should this be number 1?)
9. To have the freedom to pursue your own passions but the love to share them with that one special person?
10. To be able to go out with your friends because we're both secure enough and know we love and respect each other enough that there's no question that we'll not stray? But to have mutual friends that think you are both just as fun together is great too!
11. To know that after a hard day there's a soft place to fall and willing arms to hold you? Someone who is happy to let you vent while they rub your shoulders and kiss your neck?
12. To know that no matter what life throws you there's someone there, right beside you, willing to take it on with you? Ideally this is someone that is right there next to you as you face the hardest things..... someone to make it easier while they help carry whatever burden it is.
I'm just curious..... I think I am looking for the impossible.
I am happy to offer all of the above...but have yet to find someone willing to give it in return.
My past would identify me as a very strong woman that ends up with men that don't have their lives together. No real career or future. Men with kids all over the place where their incomes go to. I can be understanding to an extent but don't want to have to accept the short end of the stick anymore.
I can take care of myself and can't manage to act helpless no matter how hard I try. Stereotypiy it is the girls that don't even know that they have to check the oil in their cars that end up with guys that take care of them. Is it possible to be a strong woman that finds a man that wants to show her that she doesn't have to do it all alone. Not for them both, not for herself, not as a parent? Someone that is willing to take on the challenge of a single parent.....footbqall games, stress of school...etc..e.tc Granted they are not 2 year olds but I am their Mom and it is heavy, this thing that I carry- there is no support from their father. I've been doing it on my own for so long I don't know what i would do if anyone stepped up to help me carry the load.
I struggle with being spoiled and papmpered but honestly, I want it so bad....... and I want to give it so badly.