but not in your marriage as it stands now. Your wife is too afraid of losing you to a, yet her refusal to accept your sexuality be the very thing that drives you to make her fear a reality. You're too afraid to be your whole self with the woman you married, yet your refusal to face that fear and be honest with her be the very thing that drives her to put herself deeper in denial rather than to forge deeper intimacy between you two. My fiance and I have been together just over 4 years. I've been open with him from the start about my being polyamorous and bisexual. He's opened up more and more over the years with me about his bisexual experiences and fantasies. So I understand that being a completely accepting partner doesn't guarantee that my is able to tell me his whole truth in one sitting. This is an ongoing conversation you need to have with your wife if you want to intimately partner with her. Please, just keep talking to her, and keep listening. Rather than dealing with the guilt of playing safely and discretely, you could be on your way to dealing with the excitement of being able to share your whole self with your wife which not even need to include other people. Over time your wife could realize that she's not going to lose you to a, especially if she's able to explore your kinky/bisexual side WITH HER rather than without her.
maybe neither of us wants "an affair"
Maybe we both just want a fun thing in our day, and like company. Maybe we have some show off or peeper in us. maybe you do it pretty often alone, like I do, and it would feel good to have company. Pleae don't reply if I could cause you complications. That is not what this is about.
I am talking about mutual masturbation, just watching or trading hands. Safe, fun, exciting. More, if you are interested, but first just think of it staying at a friendly level that causes no stress, just puts a smile on our faces.
I am a clean cut professional guy, and please email me for more details. I would hate for a close friend or relative to recognize me here!
Older man seeks amazing snuggler m4w
I am a very nice, very easy going and sweet older man. I am tall, fairly thin and really love to hold a woman. So much more fun to watch a movie, or TV with a comfortable happy woman at my side. I have been divorced too long, and miss that. If you would like to cuddle with a sweet older man, relax with no pressure or expectations and no weirdness I would love to hear from you.