Respect, honesty, romance...where are you?
Sorry this is long, but I'd rather get everything out there so you know what you're getting and what I'm hoping to find. I'm not a narcissist, egotist or into "me". I just would rather get quality than quantity in response and not waste either of our time. Sound fair? If you are interested, please reply and ask me for a picture if you'd like. Then you can decide if you want to go from there.
I'm single, attractive, confident, divorced, athetic and fit, and expect a female to take care of her body as well. I'm not a heavy drinker and I don't do drugs. I prefer health and vitamins. I'm told all the time I look younger than my age. Maybe the health and vitamins? I love dogs (especially Goldens), thunderstorms, bonfires, classic rock music, the Twins (although this year has been kind of frustrating!), camping, fishing, traveling, road trips, weekend getaways and the State Fair!
I'm a college grad, a self-employed courier, homeowner, father of an 18 year old starting college in Jan. I am silly, funny, intelligent, unselfish, supportive, romantic and HONEST. That's the key, honesty. I demand it from someone with whom I would consider dating.
I'm very easy-going, low stress, fairly organized and low drama. I treat people with respect and don't judge people by what they own or who they know, but what is in their heart. I believe that wisdom comes from life experience, not a text book. I'm fairly selective in who I would date, but am not nit-picky or expect perfection by any means. No ones perfect including me.
OK, there's much more sweet housewives seeking sex personals hot married women but I don't want to ramble too much.
What I'm looking for in a woman: Someone who is sweet and kind. Not judgmental or fixated on the material things in life. Having nicer things to enjoy in life and help create incredible memories are fun, but fun and happiness are not the same thing. Money can't buy happiness or love. I'm looking for a woman who truly is in search of a good, honest, stable man, and is willing to take the time to really get to know one another. Someone who is tired of the dating scene and shallow men who are dishonest, try to portray themselves as someone they're not, and maybe just wants to get laid? That's not me.
I've had a couple relationships since my divorce that lasted about a year, but I made the mistake in meeting women on the rebound, who turned out to be someone they were not, or had emotional issues that they hid away, but later revealed themselves. I stress again....HONESTY! I'd rather have someone say something critical of me that is honest, than have them give me BS lip service just to massage my ego or satisfy an agenda.
I'm looking for a woman who is straightforward, non-politiy correct, but also has tact and common sense and knows when to keep it to herself and pick her battles. Because that's pretty much the way I am. If it's not something major, save the drama. If you feel it is important....speak up! Don't let it fester or tell your girlfriends....tell me! I don't need a relationship like a jigsaw puzzle. But on the other hand, I have pretty good intuition and can figure things out. Just no head games I guess is all I'm saying.
I know all this serious shit sounds deep, but like I said, I just want to chase off the tire kickers and find someone that is serious. I'm actually just a dude who likes to laugh and joke around, but knows when to be serious too. I just want to have fun, be real, keep things fairly simple and enjoy family and friends and find true love!
Isn't it great when you have that connection? When you love being with someone, holding hands, touching, sneaking kisses? And it doesn't really matter what you're doing together, it's the being together which is what counts!
Hope to hear from you. Again, please be fit/thin and around my age or younger. Please put HONESTY in the subject line and don't bother if you're not real.
Thanks....