Swingers ready friendship

Is There Love After 50? I've tried meeting men in the usual places like church, Lowe's, Home Depot, grocery stores, Southern States, etc. Why does it seem impossible to find a good man? Yes, I have posted here before and had a few nice dates but have not found the right match for me. We all have our preferences, and should not be faulted for that.
Let's face facts, shall we? How many of us are truly happy being alone? That's what I thought. At our age, hair gets gray, muscles and joints seem to malfunction and body parts start heading south....lol So why don't we forget about holding on to our youth, and embrace the fact that aging is a part of life. Be happy with what you have! That does not mean you can't have the mindset of a 30 year old; just be mature enough to handle it.
This is me:
DWF, 54, 5'9", curvy, attractive, honest, sincere, independent, analytical, creative, goal oriented, mature. In my spare time, I enjoy cooking, gardening, home improvement, decorating, fishing, camping and flea market/thrift store shopping for treasures. I'm an occassional smoker, light social drinker and I like Country music.
This is you:
Single or divorced white male, age 48 to 60, my height or taller, romantic, confident, sincere, settled, good citizen, clean cut, well-mannered, job and own place and transportation. I prefer someone who lives in the greater Richmond area, and who has time to devote to forming a true relationship. If you work a crazy schedule, your job is too demanding or prefer spending time with your friends, then I'm not the gal for you.
If interested, please reply with a short message. Thank you for reading, and have a great day!