THE FRENCH HAVE IT RIGHT m4w
In France it is accepted that marriages get stale and that affairs happen. It's no big deal. Discretion is important, but so is preserving your family structure. Their sociology is more pragmatic. There's no stigma. They understand that unmet needs must be satiated.
Well, I can't move to France, but I envy their ways. Here in puritanical New Jersey there's a stigma on what I want...and need. Yet, I'm not at all sure that an affair or two can't actually help. After all, if one is happier overall it carries over into other parts of your life.
So, I dream of finding a married women who shares my views, not looking to change either of our lives or marriages but hoping for discreet correspondence, rendezvous, and intimacy.
I have never been just like everybody else but I am very intelligent, well educated, professionally accomplished, and pretty interesting as a person. I really care about others and love to help where I can. I'm actually nice. That I'm here on CL would be a shock to my friends but I have to try this...life is too short!
As for you, I am open minded and attracted to the unconventional. Of course looks matter some, . smart... goes a long way, and curvy for another. That to me is the perfect combination.
I'm pretty candid and direct. I want to have fun, passion, and more. I miss a passionate kiss and hope to find my counterpart to share one with. Please write and say something about why we just might be a good match. Au revoir...