things 4 making a great friendship w/possible benefits
I have been trying to figure out exactly what an "NSA" relationship means and it has me wondering if something like that is possible in life, or is it something that only happens in the movies. In any event, in my opinion, it always seemed kinda degrading or cheap and Ive never been involved in that kind of situation. However, since I am not all that interested in the drama or game playing of the whole dating scene, I decided to come up with my own ten reasons what I think I could offer to such a scenario and here they are;
1. I will treat you with common courtesy and respect; not because Im playing you, but because that is how I was raised to treat people.
2. I realize benefits will only happen if there is attraction, chemistry, and a mutual connection. Which I am completely cool if there isnt. What could be wrong with making a new friend?
3. Friends do "friendly things" things together, like; dinner, movies, concerts, hanging out, etc, and thats what Im looking for.
4. When I ask you about your day, its because I really am interested in how it went and what you have to say.
5. Im real. Im genuine and Im even fairly good looking, but most of all, Im normal. I have a sarcastic sense of humor as well as a good head on my shouldersIm definitely not just another CL pervert.
6. It doesnt have to be one way or the other, i.e. a one night stand versus LTR. Why cant there be an "in between"?? Is that even possible?
7. Im not going to only when Im looking to get lucky. I might just to see if you want to go out and get a bite to eat or catch a movie. Or maybe just to get a cup of coffee and hang out.
8. Im intelligent, street smart and know the difference between to, two, and too and their, there and theyre. I work very hard, which includes working a lot of overtime. I make really good money and have a decent car.
9. I think I can be a very good friend as well as an exciting and adventurous lover. I love to laugh and explore new things when and if that intimate encounter happens. I think mutual masturbation and toys are hot! Ill give you a hug and tell you everything will be ok, if that is what you need, or Ill pin you up against the wall and tear your clothes off if that is what you want.
lbs, short blonde hair and have an athletic type build. Generally Im in decent shape. Im a serious jock at heart. lol
For what its worth. Id much rather find one great woman and settle into a solid committed relationship. But until I find that special someone, I would like to date and just have fun without having any kind of pressures. So if youre at least a little curious, please reply and tell me a little bit about yourself and we can see where it leads. Even if it only leads to a great friendship. Never hurts to make a new friend. I have a great job, make good money, and I have a nice car. I am and disease free. Smokers are welcome as I smoke myself. I would love to get into some ongoing conversation, Maybe even flirt a little bit. lol Thanks. Your pic gets my pic. Looks like another cloudy and rainy day. Please, if you would, put "friend" in the subject matter that would be great. Thanks and have a really great day!