Older ladies want xxx dating

Seeking someone for me I read a lot of ads and not one them impresses me. Im older (45) to be exact so the nudity and raunchiness is something Ill pass on.
Im an attractive black women. Im a professional. Im married. Im financially stable. I have a good life. However, if it was perfect, I wouldnt be here. I know what Im searching for. I will choose whom I want. Therefore, if its not you, thats ok. We can both move on.
Based on all of the above, discretion is a must. If your friends, cousins, sister etc knows of your desires, you are not discreet.
I am searching for someone between the ages of 30-40. I like dinners, traveling, wine tasting, the beach, shopping, brunch, etc. I like educated women. Smart women. Women who are not too chatty or ghetto. I love black women. Clean, classy, articulate black women.
Im generous but not stupid. I cant be used. But if you are seriously trying and not making ends meet, I got you. Ive been blessed.
If you want a discreet friend with benefits. A really sweet and down to earth person in your corner, reply. Im not into butch, studs, men, three somes, ratchet, ignorant, low life women. You must be working towards something. If you are a gossipy, chatty and someone who thinks the world should know your business, you are not for me. I dont want a woman with a man at home either. At some point shes going to want him to join us and Im not down for that either.
This is my ad. You dont like the rules, move on. I dont need the dumb responses. Salty men or ignorant women. Everybody isnt for everybody. I dont send pictures. I will voice verify. When I see you are serious, I will reveal who I am.
You must send me a pic. Clothes on. I dont want your ass, cat or breasts in my.Thats classless.
Please respond with *I have class* in the subject line. No pic, no response.
Lets do this. Trust me, you wont be disappointed.