I get tired of those who are "out" and/or openly bi to push their choices on others. There is no universal solution. I have made a choice to keep the bisexuality in my life separate and on the DL. This is what works for me. I don't identify myself as either or bi. I live a very straight life and choose to engage in limited and always safe bisexual "experiences". I would not choose to ever engage into a sexual situation with someone that is openly bi for exactly the same reasons that I would never hook up with anyone that is openly. I am simply minimizing my std/hiv risk. To me, the worst part about living as a closet bi is the inherent fact that I am living a lie and ultimately lying to those I care about. The sad truth is that if I met the right STRAIGHT woman that satisfied me on all levels, I have no problem at all walking away from the bisexual component entirely. However, I would rather do that than drop the truth in their lap. Yes, I know my friends family would me either way its not about that its a much bigger picture that is being affected. That's just me. We all need to make decisions that make sense to us in our own unique situations.
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