Hi looking for the coolest chic ever!
Ok here's the deal I have always winced at the thought of online dating. . . but in the name of open-mindedness, f*** it. After being thoroughly disappointed in the trashy local nightlife, I have come to the conclusion that meeting people here might not be the worst idea. So, here it goes. . . I'm a 38 year old white hopeless romantic man and very unapologetic about it! A sizable portion of my salary is spent in buying food and wine since I love both. I generally spend my weekends outdoors playing soccer, fishing, hiking or on a somewhere drinking wine. Sometimes I volunteer at poverty based charities. Despite being very busy, I make it a point to find the time for doing the things I like and spending the time with people who I care about. I like people who have brains, humor and wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), , of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), those who have been through some sh-t in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you). No high maintenance egos and if you spend more than an hour at the gym a couple of days a week. First Date: I can say what my first date nightmares are: Cheezy Hip restaurant--is laughable Bar or nightclub -yelling in each other's ear. I disapprove of crazy conservative politics and racism. I approve of paid time off and micro-brew . I discourage overindulgence and under-stimulation. I am uninterested in vapid minds and perverts. I am interested in smart asses and challenging repartee. Now what?" Qualities I Possess I'm a hopeless romantic, nocturnal, dependable (so I hear), very much the gentleman and old when it comes to women (this I say so myself!), not easily ruffled, sensitive, and generally happy with life. You Are... Someone who is romantic, but also practical (so that we complement each other), who is generally happy and doesn't get worked up too easily, not needy , is optimistic, and enjoys the fine things in life (music, food, and art being the main ones). Also, you have a sense of humor and love practical jokes! Looking for Someone to hang out with from time to time. Committed or not maybe we are just friends maybe something more. I believe in fate and am open to anything!